Why do we sometimes feel let down and bored, especially when it comes to our intimate life with the partner? Could the reason be that we don’t actually know how to improve it?
Having discovered an interesting Feng Shui intimate life practice, it has become obvious what a few things could be improved. According to Feng Shui, we have to enjoy every single moment we spend with our partners and have to seek for psychical and physical harmony in every step.
The Eastern World has always been good at sex. In Eastern countries sex is equal to meditation, where, according to Dao practices, two individuals making love are seeking not only to experience physical pleasure, but also to align their souls.
According to Feng Shui, sex cannot be fast. The rule “fast and hot” cannot be applicable. Certainly, using only mechanics one can experience the pleasure, but that is only a daily experience: we ate, we drank, we forgot…
Bioenergetical specialists claim that during the act we exchange energies. If we are only aiming to please our instincts, then we are exchanging lowest-level energies. Therefore, in order to improve, it is being advised to make love to a long-term partner and your soul mate.
Do not forget foreplay – actually, it is being advised that foreplay should not take any less than 30 minutes.
In order to avoid difficulties, it is being advised to take care of where the furniture is being placed. Feng Shui practitioners advise to put your bed in a south-west part of your bedroom. And it would be better if your bed is not a sleeping sofa, since it creates a “line” between you and your partner. The perfect option would be a big bed with one double-sized mattress.
Some floral elements, such as flowers, mini bushes or artificial flowers will create a harmonious environment, helping you to relax and focus on each other. However, you should be aware that pets should not be allowed in your bedroom since they can be a distraction – and you would probably not feel relaxed looking at your pet while having an intimate moment with your partner…
Do not forget to change positions while having your intimate time with each other. It will help you to feel your partner better, and it is also advised not to take long “breaks” when changing; sex has to be an intimate souls’ and bodies’ dance between the two. The ideal intimate time, according to Feng Shui, should take a couple of hours – and you will probably need some practice to melt into each others bodies and still keep the lust – but it’s worth trying!